You are joking aren't you Ken? I'm small in stature and in ambition but big in perseverance. If you want to get anything done - do it yourself! I was in contact with The Times thanks to Phil Hind. I couldn't be in their Titanic feature because I had a deal with the Daily Mail who, after ignoring me for four weeks, I find out today will not be running the serialisation at all leaving me run out of time to try any other paper before the anniversary, hey ho. I just kept on knocking on doors. With finding the grave, it could easily have been missed but again I kept trying and would have continued to do so until I had found him. As for the research, I haven't got decades of it behind me but I worked blimmin hard, day and night for one year reading and re-reading everything. I am absolutely delighted about where I am now and when I stood at Robert's grave I know he was too. You've been brilliant Ken at finding out things. I didn't know about the Express. Hubby's gone out to get it for me. Thanks a bunch.